I get so jaded to think that my bf not only had a couple of flings but that they were extremely different looking than me (not to mention unfortunate looking as well). And i just don't get it... why sleep with them if you're not attracted to them or their personality??? I've never had a one-night stand...and am not religious in any way or form so maybe someone can shed some light, because for some reason or another its really hard to convince myself that it didn't mean anything. The act of sex to me is not sacred but you're really taking a risk (i.e, STDs, pregnancy)--- so why risk it for someone that's meaningless. Although i realize barriers exist-- nothing is 100% so why do it??? Yes, i love my bf a lot and never felt this way about my ex of 8 years.... so any advice?
