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SAM821 · 08-10-2006, 03:39 PM

Well... Its harder than most people think. I know how you feel. Personally, I would try to intentionally steer a conversation that way. Maybe ask her what she is looking to do in life, or try one day while you are snuggling, and looking in her eyes, tell her that you like her...

If you are looking for the security of knowing she is yours, then just come out with it. I mean (depending on your ages) if you are in your 20's + then people can usually just move along with a relationship and be "informally" dating for a while, its kind of a natural occurence that just happens and moves on from there. Basically if your "relationship" becomes sexual, then obviously things are getting serious (especially knowing that you have slept over there a couple of times and haven't fornicated yet) So when it does happen, the relationship is obviously apparent.

So, really its up to you, the days of asking a girl "will you go out with me" are over. So you just got to strike up the conversation and bust out with the whole "I really like you and can see myself with you" type of line during your talk...

Good luck, let us know how it goes...

08-10-2006, 03:39 PM	#2 (permalink)
SAM821 Surviving Hurricanes Location: Miami, Florida	Well... Its harder than most people think. I know how you feel. Personally, I would try to intentionally steer a conversation that way. Maybe ask her what she is looking to do in life, or try one day while you are snuggling, and looking in her eyes, tell her that you like her... If you are looking for the security of knowing she is yours, then just come out with it. I mean (depending on your ages) if you are in your 20's + then people can usually just move along with a relationship and be "informally" dating for a while, its kind of a natural occurence that just happens and moves on from there. Basically if your "relationship" becomes sexual, then obviously things are getting serious (especially knowing that you have slept over there a couple of times and haven't fornicated yet) So when it does happen, the relationship is obviously apparent. So, really its up to you, the days of asking a girl "will you go out with me" are over. So you just got to strike up the conversation and bust out with the whole "I really like you and can see myself with you" type of line during your talk... Good luck, let us know how it goes...