Relationship opportunity....need advice (UPDATE!)
So I've been dating this girl I met at the gym for a little over a week now and things are going great. Really sweet and caring girl etc etc. We just kissed the other night after I gave her a massage and whatnot. It was a great kiss and I enjoyed it quite a bit. She works at the gym also, so we see each other pretty much everyday. We take spin class (where I met her through my other friend) and yoga together twice a week.
Here's my question, sort of. We've gone out for coffee and had nice conversation and have warmed up to each other quite a bit. I've spent the night there a few times (nothing but some good old snuggling going on) and her once at my house. My question is, I'd like to know what she thinks about the whole situation. We haven't really talked about it at all. I know I know. Just ask her you say. Well, my other question would be how should I approach the subject? Just come out and ask? Or steer conversation in that direction then ask? I know she likes me and I like her, so there's no doubt that a connection is there. I don't quite know if shes looking for a relationship or not, but I am. I think its time for me. I don't want to fuck this opportunity up like I have my past relationships and say or do something that might turn her away. Not that I have in the past but I tend to rush things physically. I want to take my time on this one. So I guess I'm just looking for some advice from everybody. I appreciate any input. Thanks guys.
-BigD
Last edited by BigDonkey2; 08-18-2006 at 11:00 AM..
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