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Originally Posted by longbough
It seems with women, building to an orgasm is like constructing a 5 foot tall house of cards. If you destroy it just before it's done ... you might not want to bother with even trying it again that night.
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Yep, very good description. As I said earlier, it's like chugging up a huge roller coaster hill... ratcheting up a tiny step at a time, to the point where it starts to crest and go over the hill and down fast. If the roller coaster mechanism stops/changes/lets go of the cars at any point before the top... it all slides down to the bottom and starts over. Not so much fun for the woman when that happens, and then it ends up taking more work on the guy's part to keep his tongue and fingers active down there.
For example, I often have 3-4 approaches to an orgasm before the final one crests, because each time there will be some miniscule change that sets me back to zero... I have to stay very aware of my abdominal and kegel muscles in order to hold on to the level I've reached and not slip back down if something changes. I get one hell of a workout, I'll say that!
Also, I don't know if this is true for other women, but my orgasms are much faster and more intense when I have something to pull myself up to. E.g. the headboard on the bed... if I can grab onto that and put a strain on my abdominals during oral, it's much more intense for me. Then again, I was always the girl who got horny from climbing the rope in junior high...
