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Originally Posted by Hektore
I don't entirely agree with this, while yes, a girl wants to get her rocks off as much as the next guy, sometimes bringing her to the brink and then cold turkey stopping - going back to kissing around, nipple play ect, often results in a much stronger orgasm when you return to the previous...task. It requires a pretty good read on your girl (this depends on your partner a lot as well) to be able to stop just shy though.
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One might think so.
But that's what I thought a long time ago when I was young and inexperienced. I brought my girlfriend to the very brink of coming then ..... stopped completely. Her eyes widended in a combination of disbelief and fury (as if to say "I can't believe you fucking did that!" )... that
et tu Brute expression I will never forget. I tried to explain to her but she just rolled over to sleep and didn't talk to me for the rest of the night.
I asked subsequent girlfriends in advance about the idea of "stopping." I haven't met a single girl who liked the idea. It seems with women, building to an orgasm is like constructing a 5 foot tall house of cards. If you destroy it just before it's done ... you might not want to bother with even trying it again that night.
With us guys it's different. Stopping an orgasm often does guarantee a stronger one to follow. Why do you think there's so much advice about stopping male "premature ejaculation?" But there's
no advice (or even inquiry) about stopping a female "premature" orgasm. That's because women aren't built like us. After an orgasm a guy feels spent. But many women feel energized or more intimate after they come.
One ex-gf said it best: "If you tried that with me even ONCE ... I will KILL you ... and you will have deserved it. You've been warned."
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Originally Posted by savvypup
Holy Shit Longbough ........... you know the clit the clit well. Are you single? 
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yep.
100% single at the moment.