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If he hadn't been telling her he loved her as recently as MONDAY, when she was last here, the day before he told me, it would be considerably easier for me to ponder forgiving him. Based on his actions, it just seems like he wanted to get me out of the way to have a chance with her as well.

Last fall, I met a girl and hung out with her and eventually hooked up with her briefly, and then realized she wasn't what I wanted. Then he started pursuing her, and they had a month-ish long relationship. He has a history of chasing after girls who may have had a thing for me but moved on. In my previous relationship, during April/May 2005, my friend introduced us to his friend "Janet", who immediately paid considerable attention/expressed interest in me. I already had a girlfriend, and I wasn't going to let "Janet" jeopardize that relationship so I told her to back off. Then my roommate "dated"(fucked) her for like 4 months. In February of this year, I went on a date with a girl named "Mary". Mary and I hung out a few times and she spent the night once, although we did not hook up. I expressed disinterest in her eventually, and my roommate jumped on that. He pseudo-dated her for 3 months till she moved. The he fucked my now ex girlfriend, shortly after "Mary" moved home to another state at the end of the Spring semester. Basically every girl who I've met and has been interested in me, that he has met, since the end of my last relationship, he has fucked. Whether or not I did anything with them, whether or not I cared about them. It made me very uncomfortable what he did last fall, picking up a girl that I hooked up with. Hell, I'm not even sure if my first girlfriend didn't do anything with him, she had multiple opportunities, although she didn't really like sex to begin with, and they weren't close.

I really hadn't thought about it like this before, but hes done some other shit in his past. He slept with the ex-girlfriend of his best friend at home, and thought for a long time that he'd gotten her pregnant and she had an abortion. He also slept with his other friend's sister behind his friend's back. After realizing this pattern of him picking up my cast-aways, even if I didn't care about them, and then him finally all out fucking me over, I don't think he can be trusted not to try to poach any girls in the future. Especially since he has been doing objectionable shit behind his other friends' backs since highschool.

Edit: To my knowledge, hes never had an upstanding, respectable girlfriend, that he has taken home to his parents, or actually been able to legitimately call his *girlfriend*.