From one of your previous threads:
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Well, things have gotten worse. Basically she went out with friends from work and told me she was out with her sister (Thursday night). We fought. I got drunk and ranted to my roommate. I still kept my plans to go visit her over the weekend. I go visit her and she is in a bad mood almost the entire weekend. I find out today that my roommate told her all of the heinous shit that I said when I was drunk, which I didn't really mean, in addition to some other stuff I said to him in confidence about her. Which is why she was in a bad mood pretty much all of the time. Basically he has completely broken my friendship with him, and hurt my relationship further.
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I remember reading this a while back and thinking "I wonder if she's banging his roommate?" I didn't want to seem too far off base so I didn't post it.
Your roommate sounds like he's one of two things. Either he's very easily manipulated or he's a good liar. It's obvious from your posts that your ex-girlfriend is a great manipulator. She got your roommate to think he was in love with her...he's probably inexperienced in sexual relationships. He told her all about your drunken rant toward her, and thought it was justified because he didn't see her as a bitch...he was blinded by love. She also manipulated him into keeping their relationship a secret, until his conscious got the better of him.
Either that or he's just a lying manipulative prick who has been laughing behind your back the whole time, and just doesn't care about your friendship. I don't see this because he didn't have to tell you about the cheating, and he did.
Face it, you guys both got used. You both fell in love with someone who didn't love you back, but she loved the attention and affection you both gave her. If I'm right about this whole scenario, then you both need to swallow some pride and admit that you were both pretty gullable. It would be a shame to see a friendship break up over this. Both of you should chalk it up to learning experiences and move on.