This is awsome guys.
Some extra goodies...for beginners and all...
Arouse your girl extesivelly. Take your time to pet and tease. A wonderful indicator of her state is to find ticklish areas on her body (inside of thight or that sexy indintation on the inside of her hipbone)...if you can kiss them lightly without her bursting into giggles...she'll be begging you to go down on her...which, by the way, is also a great sign.
Don't apply too much preasure. You would be amazed at how light a touch can cause a woman to orgasm. Infact you can overstimulate to the point where she will go kind of numb and not be able to orgasm.
Start by being creative...explore, have fun and play with her. Finish with rythmic steady motions. I find side to side motions with the tongue to be very effective. I also find the underside of the tongue to work well very well...it's much smoother.
One of the better possitions is with her on the edge of the bed while you crouch on the floor. Place one of her legs over your shoulder and wrap your arm around it placing your hand on her pelvis. This is actually pretty important.
- With some girls the hood will get pulled over the clit just prior or during orgasm which can really throw you of. Use your hand to gently tug and pull the hood up.
- A suprising many women tense up their abdominal muscles prior to orgasm, which prevents proper breathing. If you feel her tense up rub her pelvis/stomach and ask her to relax. Her orgasms will be much deeper in a relaxed state with proper breathing.
- Later you'll find other uses for that hand ;P
Most girls will be very sensitive after a clitoral orgasm to the point where they won't let you lick it. Come up and do other things, in the mean time, cover her pussy with your hand, applying slight, indirect preasure on her clit with a finger. Sometimes this extends her orgasm. The fun isn't over, you can go back down in a little while.
Yah...that about covers newbie tips.
Oh one more thing...as with sex it's best to focus on energy and emotion rather then technique.
Have fun
