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Originally Posted by Seaver
That's why you should salvage the friendship. You were knowingly the "other guy." While he violated a huge rule by being your friend/roommate at the time, but when it comes down to it you did the same thing.
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True, I was the other guy, to a guy who she broke up with the very next time she saw him, one week after she met me, who lived 6 hours away. My roommate was the other guy to his best friend who lives down the hall, who was in a relationship that was only growing. Slightly different situation. Her ex boyfriend lost his girlfriend, who he had already lost months ago. I lost my friend/roommate, and my girlfriend, and I'm not sure, but I may end up losing out on mutual friends and I'll probably move out. There are multiple levels of wrong, and I think the only way this could be more wrong was if she got pregnant with his child and didn't tell me. I know what I did was wrong, but it was not equal to what happened to me or some way make me deserve what happened.
I've pretty much decided that I'm breaking off our friendship and moving out as soon as convenient. Thanks for everyone's advice.