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Time to live up to your name, eh? I wish I had access to my first post on this, I was really proud of it. I'll try to lay it down....
1) Don't be nervous. There really isn't a wrong way to do something of this nature, there are only different styles that evolve depending on the giver and the reciever. As you have more and more experience, you'll undoubtedly develope your own technique.
2) This is about one thing: pleasure. As you've had sex before, you probably have at least a vague idea of how she reacts when she is feeling pleasure. Look for the signs, and make a note of what she enjoys. If she likes fast, horizontal movement, remember to throw that in the mix next time. If she likes slow, circular movement towards the clitorus, then remember to use it later.
3) Pretend your tongue is doing yoga: try as many differnt movements and positions as possible. I've noticed from personal experience that a great variation of movement can be more than the sum of it's parts. If you can twist your tongue, try it. If you can move it quickly, try it. If you can make your tongue into a vibrator, do it.
4) You need to familiarize yourself with the different nerve clusters in the area. I'll find a link to pictures when my 2 year old daughter leaves the room. There are dozens of different locations that have different responses or effects. Think of it this way. If you were going to Germany on vacation, wouldn't you study a map first to find out the best places?
5) Don't be afraid to ask her what she likes.
Best of luck, and enjoy.
Oh, and try not to sneeze.
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