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Originally Posted by abaya
My problem was that some of the guys on this thread assumed that girls were the ones "sticking their ass" in some guys' crotch, uninvited, and that this was causing a boner... and that the girl shouldn't be offended if that happens. Well, duh. They shouldn't be offended.
But that's not usually the case (though I'm sure it happens). My point was that usually the guy initiates it, and sometimes the guy doesn't get the idea that you're not interested in his boner (e.g. he chases your ass halfway across the dance floor) until he gets a couple of sharp elbows to the stomach.  |
Ok here's what's what. Apparently you're not the type to roll up to a guy and dance with him by sticking your ass in his crotch, and that's fine. You must have friends of similar dispositions.
The pure fact of the matter is, a large percentage of the rest of the club-going females DO. I don't know why you're unaware of this, but they do. A lot. Overwhelmingly the majority, in fact.
I don't care how many females come out in this thread and say they don't and have never seen it, you're either not catching it or you're lying to yourself. Because it's VERY common.
To be honest, I've heard of plenty of girls who will grind up on a guy's crotch out of nowhere, unprovoked- but no one's going to call a girl grinding her ass into your crotch creepy, even if she's horridly unattractive.
And yes, there are those guys that initiate it, but that's not what we're talking about. We're talking about a mutually-enjoyed dancing experience between two people
already in progress, pre-boner, and THEN the man develops an erection. That's what's being discussed here.
And yes, it's ok to allow the natural process of sexual arousal when someone is intentionally rubbing their ass on your crotch. If they freak out, they must not know what the penis is there for.
