Well, I'm taking it as a guy and a gal are dancing together, close enough that he gets excited and she can tell, via sight and/or touch. In that instance, for me, as long as the guy isn't coming AT me with it, or blocking me from leaving, then I'd consider it a natural event, and hell, why not--a bit of a compliment. And I can see it happening during Salsa dancing, I don't see why that would be different. But I should note that I've never, EVER "dirty danced" with a guy not my hubby in a club. I don't like it and don't care to watch it either, really.
However, if some guy comes up to me and starts pole-vaulting AT me, without my consent, nuh uh. But I have to say that's not at all how I read the OP.
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