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I think that most girls don't like that. I certainly don't. Dancing with a guy I don't know can be purely fun, with no sexual interest at all, just because I like to dance and if he dances well, why not? I wouldn't mind if I find him attractive and if he asks me for a drink I'll say yes, but a guy I don't know having a hard-on and flaunting it at me would scare me off. I'd find it a bit creepy and probably run. But of course, it depends on the type of dancing, and of club, and of girl, right?
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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