One thing you really need to be aware of when dating someone older is that you two are probably in very different stages in life. It may not be apparent to you right now because you are still in that googly-eyed phase. It will start to become more obvious though how much older he is than you. I mean think about the future...when you are 40 he will be 57. Is this okay with you? He already has kids and by the time you are ready to have your own, he may not want any because he may feel he is too old.
It's not to say that age difference always gets in the way, but you need to be aware that someone who is 38 thinks a lot differently than someone who is 21.
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