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Originally Posted by abaya
As a woman, I can tell you that I loved the fact that my boyfriend was a virgin, and that he was totally honest about it from the very beginning. I think that if a woman flips out when you tell her you're a virgin, she's really not mature enough to appreciate you. But that's just my opinion. I really respect virginity, and I always hated it when people talked shit about being a virgin.
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Yes, it's too bad I realize that after the fact. I can't count how many hours I've spent alone in bed wishing I had just been up front with her and gauging her reaction from there.
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Originally Posted by abaya
That said, I have to ask, did you wear a condom with her? If not, why?
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Not only she broke out. The reason I never brought it up with her was I didn't know how to put one on. I didn't want to risk looking goofy and not knowing how to use a condom after telling her I had been with 6 girls. Then again, she had a box full of condoms at her place and she didn't start breaking them out until the warts broke out.
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Originally Posted by abaya
Also, I have HPV from one bad decision I made... but it's not the wart kind, and it doesn't affect my boyfriend at all. Have you had any more breakouts since the first one? And are you sure it was a wart? I knew a guy who thought he had HPV for months, but in the end the bumps were ingrown hairs from shaving.  Anyway, just some thoughts. |
Yes, I just had my first break out last week which spurned me to write out this story. It really is cathartic to write and I feel a lot better putting the facts into writing. It's definitely warts. The doctor examined it and my break out is in a different place but it's clearly new and wart-like.
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Originally Posted by abaya
Sorry, man. Sounds like that girl was a loser, no matter how hot she was.
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Yes, that seems to be the general consensus from people I talk to about it. Still, it sucks knowing how strong our relationship was at one point, especially having a beautiful girl too.