As a woman, I can tell you that I loved the fact that my boyfriend was a virgin, and that he was totally honest about it from the very beginning. I think that if a woman flips out when you tell her you're a virgin, she's really not mature enough to appreciate you. But that's just my opinion. I really respect virginity, and I always hated it when people talked shit about being a virgin.
That said, I have to ask, did you wear a condom with her? If not, why?
Also, I have HPV from one bad decision I made... but it's not the wart kind, and it doesn't affect my boyfriend at all. Have you had any more breakouts since the first one? And are you sure it was a wart? I knew a guy who thought he had HPV for months, but in the end the bumps were ingrown hairs from shaving.
Anyway, just some thoughts.
Sorry, man. Sounds like that girl was a loser, no matter how hot she was.