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Yes you deserve love and good things. Of course. But it's not about deserving. Like lurkette is saying, it just is.
Word of advice - to all you girls who tell your boyfriends that you feel you "don't deserve" him and that you're not "good enough" for him....don't tell him. It's not a good idea. It puts ideas into their heads and soon, when things get a little rough, they may start wondering the same thing. Bad karma....just saying
Never put yourself down that way. Maintain your independence and notion of self-worth and don't grovel. Respect yourself more and if you're not comfortable in the relationship, then move on. If you believe you deserve shit, then that's what you'll get.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.
Fernando Pessoa, 1918
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