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Originally Posted by punkmusicfan21
I am still quite fearful of a child and how that may effect us... she is complaining that her stomach is sticking out, that she may have a gut (she is very small; a ballet dancer) but her stomach is hard yet tender and sore. Her period wasn't the same as usuall but she said the flow was very heavy for two days which makes me think perhaps i have nothing to worry abot. But of course, I am probably wrong. She is still elated and joyful all the time (she usually is but very much so lately; less then last week though) and still gets upset easily. Also, she is easily sore vaginally (word?) Her period ended a couple of days ago? help me.
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Noone will be able to tell you for sure punk, I'd suggest that you get a home pregnancy kit to put your mind at ease.
However, perhaps you should reconsider whether or not you are ready for sex. Granted, I don't really know you - so take what I say with a grain of salt, but it seems to me that you get extraordinarily worried about pregnancy, even when you have taken relatively reliable precautions. I suppose the only way for you to know is to decide if sex is worth the feelings that you have right now. Perhaps you could limit yourself to oral sex or something. If I were sweating each month like you were, I would seriously take a step back and try and determine if I was ready or not - because regardless of how cautious you are, you certainly could become a parent.
Either way, good luck - and I feel for you bud
