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Once a month tops....on a good month twice (typically missonary only...clasify it as a quicky). Have had dry spells last for at least 3 months. We've known each other since high school (lots of activity), married 14 years, 37 & 37 with 2 kids. I even got snipped to reduce the fear of having another (so she could relax), no change.
Like most on here I would prefer at least 3 times a week and sprinkle in a few sex-like acts. I work typically 10 hour days (+hour to decompress), she has a business and takes the kids where they need to go so being tired plays into it. I subscribe to the philosophy of I'll get enough sleep when I'm dead. My drive is always available, her drive is practically nil.
Wow to write that and read it...now I feel sad.
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