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Old 07-19-2006, 02:41 PM   #180 (permalink)
Kittie Rose
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Here's my 2 cents:
Am I against gay marriage? Yes.
Am I against a civil union between two same-sex people? Not at all.

Marriage is a union, in the eyes of God, between a man and a woman. Period.
Rubbish. That isn't an opinion, it's a claim, and it's false. Marriage has been around since before pre-Christian times, I'm staring at a Greek creation myth in which Uranus was Gaia's husband. Atheists can marry. You have no right to force your beliefs on someone else through the ballots, even if your country may make it seem like you do.

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I believe that if two people want to "legally" join and have all the rights, protections, benefits, etc. that they receive then they should have every right to no matter their sexual preference.
But it still means gay couples are somehow second rate to straight couples. Unless you can give them something that has equal standing to marriage, like, for instance, gay marriage, you're just being patronising. There are many, many rights given to married couple and I have no doubt that a "civil union" would only recieve the most basic of these benefits.

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Originally Posted by Infinite_Loser
Regardless of what you want to call it, it's still a debate. There's no need to name-calling or flamebaiting. It doesn't make your argument any stronger. Quite the opposite, in fact. The more beligerent you are, the less willing I am to debate with you. That's real life.
There's no need for making unbacked assertions against minorities, either.

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Erm... The majority of your argument is/was centered around comments directed towards my intellect, while the other half was mainly about me being "Homophobic" or a "Bigot". There was one comment (Well, one I remember in particular) directed towards me which was nothing but a petty insult.
Except everytime I do that I explain why. It's not an insult to call you a chicken if I can demonstrate to you that you are for all intensive purposes, your average farmyard chicken.

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I posed a question to you, but it went unanswered. I oppose gay marriage, yet I have two lesbian friends (Good friends, in fact) whom I regularly spend time with. How do that fit into your broad category of homophobia?
What question?

I find it very arrogant and malign of you that even with gay friends, you still oppose gay marriage, actually. Not to mention how overuse and completely ridiculous that argument is.

You're not Fred Phelps, I noticed. That doesn't mean you're in anyway justified, however.

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Correction; Those are extreme examples of what can happen.
Examples of what DOES happen.

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Unfortunately, there's always an extreme to any situation.
I don't see any parrellel on the pro-gay side. Nothing even resembling it.

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It doesn't mean that this type of thing is indicative to the majority.
It does mean that it happens as long as people create an atmosphere where it's acceptable to have so called "Opinions" that are nothing but an insult to a minority.

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Most opposition to gay marriage stems from moral and religious beliefs. Whether you want to acknowledge it or not-- Or even agree with it or not-- Most of our laws are built on moral and religious beliefs. That's a valid reason as any to oppose gay marriage.
No it's not. That's circular reasoning and appealing to tradition. It's literally DEFINED as invalid reasoning, therefore you are wrong. Please read up on logical fallacies before. And don't reply to me whining about how I'm forcing my beliefs on you(which is extremely ironic), it's defined as being invalid reasoning and you'll have to come up with something better than that.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Circular_reasoning
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Appeal_to_tradition

Your reasoning is wrong. Please be mature and accept this. If you do not, you are not adhering to some of the most basic rules of debate and I literally cannot continue a logical debate with you any longer. Maybe there is some incredible reasoning why gay marriage should be banned, but the ones you have mentioned are not. You should need a heck of a lot more than to force your beliefs on someone. You have some of the most terrible societal reasoning I've ever seen.

Moral and religious beliefs are no excuse. It's not difficult to see you're denying someone their rights for little to no reason. Keep your "morals" and beliefs to yourself, and let others have their beliefs. The only Morals there should be are ones based on what hurts people and what doesn't.

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It's good to see that you have slightly backed off of your ridiculous statement that "All people who oppose gay marriage are homophobic".
I didn't. It's true. I'll say it again. You believe in discriminating against a minority, putting your own arrogant beliefs before the well being of others.

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By the way, I only call ad hominem when you blatantly insult me (As you did in the post which Charlatan edited).
Ad Hominem is only arguing from an insult. It is not merely insulting someone.

It just shows how little you really know - Ad Hominem is merely short for Argumentum Ad Hominem. If you'd have known the full title, it speaks for itself - arguiment against the person. I wasn't using insults as part of my actual argument, as I was demonstrating how the "weight" of them was in some way true.

Your argument is based around two fallacies - Appeal to Tradition and Circular reasoning. You're in no position to the pointing out apparent "fallacies" in my argument which are merely instances of frustration with the repetition of your argument.

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It is a loaded term, but that doesn't mean that there aren't people who don't live up to the term. Simply because some people do, doesn't mean everyone does.
You said it was NOTHING but a loaded term. Now you're changing your position to look somewhat less ridiculous. Please just admit your initial post was very brash in offensive, and in a manner that you can't get a warning for, making it somewhat sly too.

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That's rather an unfair comparison. Fred Phelps is an idiot, I agree. But, unlike Fred Phelps, I don't hate gays nor do I preach hate for gays. It's wrong of you to group everyone opposing gay marriage in the same breath as him.
But you do take a stand against gay marriage for no real logical reasons. So you do belong in the same camp as him if we're grouping by that. Being against Gay Marriage is a homophobic vice and you've done nothing to prove otherwise, despite my backing for it.

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It's not rubbish. Your first assumption was that I was homophobic, easily disproved by the fact that I have gay friends. That's what I was responding to. According to your logic, for someone to non-discriminatory they have to be willing to grant all groups the exact same rights as the next.
I never said you were homophobic until you said you were against gay marriage, confirming that you are a particular brand of homophobe.

There's a reason homophobe IS a loaded word. Your stance is wrong and unlike most people online I don't mollycoddle this rubbish. Unless you can defend your position without basing it on fallacy, it's a pile of cack. A pile of cack that keeps people from the rights they deserve. Maybe most people stand for that, but I don't. I'm telling you right here and now that it's wrong and not a viewpoint you should be proud of, and not as an opinion, but according to the current facts which indicate nothing is wrong with legalising gay marriage.

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I've already explained why I disprove of gay marriage on pages prior. You could always read go back and find them for yourself.
No, if you have such a definite argument you should be able to repeat it in a short summary. It can't possibly be that complicated.

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That's not correct. Laws are basically a set of standards upon which the populace is expected to abide by. Laws, by their nature, will inherently discriminate against some group of people as they usually force a set of standards on someone.
But laws are only meant to be enforce when people act in a manner that hurts others. They're not, obviously, thanks to conservatism and people like you who make utterly fallicious arguments to defend institutionalised discrimination, but the point is, that's what they're meant to be. They're meant to protect people - why do people need protecting from Gay Marriage when it's not even damn well effecting them? And don't give me the "It affects all society" nonsense. You know very well you can't back that up. It affects the rest of society in a very small way, but ultimately puts nobody else in any overall differing position.

This is why Relativism is such a dangerous idealogy - it claims to be the most realistic yet involves removing any trace of actual reality.

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That's a rather noble concept, but not one which is feasible.
What!? It's the only basis any law should based on. What the hell are the point of laws if they're not there to protect people?

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Following that criterion, most of our laws would be null and void and some of them prevent people from engaging in activities which would harm no one.
Do me a favour - never use "following that logic" type statements again. They nearly always invoke the slippery slope or are generally nonsensical.

In this statement, it's ridiculous because we are sentient beings that can tell when a certain law against a particular "hurting people" action would be inadvisable.

There is no logic behind banning gay marriage.

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This is getting kina' old... I'm not a bigot.
So says you, bigot.

Now, if I was to use Ad Hominem, it would look like that. But that's not how I put it at all. you are bigotted as you believe in your idealogy of marriage far above all others, and enforcing it on other people, where it doesn't affect you in the slightest.

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You're right. I do oppose gay marriage because it goes against my moral code. That doesn't make me a bigot, though.
*sigh*

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Bigotry is a form of intolerance.
You are intolerant of homosexuals marrying.

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I'm not intolerant of gays;
You are intolerant of them marrying.

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I don't sit on the corner of the street protesting their right to exist;
You are protesting their right to marry.

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I don't exclaim that the government jail them;
You do exclaim that the government refuse to grant them equal status.

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And I certainly don't believe that they be on the receiving end of hate crimes.
Yet you do believe that homophobia should not be frowned upon, thus created an environment where hate crimes are more common.

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You need to learn the difference between bigotry and disagreement.
Rubbish. Like I said, people right off claims as opinions and beliefs so they can keep them long after they're proven wrong.

This is no exception.

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My point is that simply because I oppose something in principle, doesn't mean I'm a bigot. We all oppose some principle. It doesn't make any of us bigotted.
But you also believe very strongly in your idea of marriage to the extent that it should be the only one that exists. That's disgustingly bigotted. Why not let everyone have their own idea of marriage if you're not a bigot?

I won't piss on someone for thinking that marriage should be a man or a woman. I will for thinking that that's the way it should be for everyone else.

I will repeat that American and much of the rest of the world has serious problems distinguishing between having a belief, and forcing it on someone in a vicious manner.

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You say that enforcing traditional values on people is disrespectful? I'm not really going to get into an argument over whether that's right or not,
Of course not, it's the basis for your entire argument, and we already established that it's most likely about as grounded as most other homophobic arguments.

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According to many people's standards, gay marriage is wrong.
That doesn't make it right.

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I hate to break it to you, but very nearly all of our modern laws and rules stem from religious and/or moral beliefs.
So? Many laws can be logically determined by the simple does-it-hurt-people law combined with the sense of is-it-practical. Gay marriage does not hurt people and is practical. Tradition is meaningles in such things, as you shouldn't be allowed enforce it on others.
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