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<i>She</i> ran, not him. There were issues to be solved, and instead of trying to resolve them, she dumped him. I refuse to lead this poor guy on into thinking that this can be salvaged. He's only setting himself up for more pain.
This is global advice that for all men out there: if she dumps you, do not take her back. That's all she needs to see that she has you wrapped tightly around her little finger. Never let a woman control you. Memalvada, if you continue this relationship, it is exactly what you will be allowing her to do.
I know Mem started this thread to get advice on pleasing his girlfriend, but it's not what he should be attempting to do. She will find another reason to dump him. Is that a good reason for him to dump her first? You better believe it is.
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