Why is she responsible for providing a safe and comfortable location for sex?
Be honest with yourself and your emotions. I want to say that the two of you are too young to be tied down, but I am no authority. I know one very successful couple that are in their 30s that have been together since high school. Until I met them, I didn't believe that lifelong monogamy was a truly viable option. I see now that it works for some people, but it hasn't been my path.
Step back, take a look at your options. Realize what you would be throwing away in either scenario. Do not put yourself into any position that you would regret. Be certain to communicate your emotions clearly, whichever scenario you decide upon.
Good luck! Doesn't sound easy.
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"Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq
"violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy
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