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I see what your getting at, its the whole cocky and funny thing that's going around being taught.
I think ultimately what one needs is true confidence, and the whole cocky method is one way to exhibit it, but there are other ways. You can be genuinely nice and still be confident and not give off needy vibes. And being 'nice' doesn't necessarily entail buying her anything, it just means you are courteous, respectful, and you, most importantly, laugh with her not at her.
A good point about the buying drinks thing; if they're there for a free drink, and tell you to buy them one, then of course its a walk. But equally so, true confidence means you do whatever you feel like. So, if you happen to meet one girl in particular, and you feel like buying her a drink, I don't see a problem with it. As long as your doing it cause you feel like it, not to make her feel like she owes you something..
and buying her one drink is not bending over backwards for her. as long as you give off that vibe that your confident but nice, not needy, its all good.
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