Originally Posted by lilfle

ok, so here's the situation

my boyfriend and i do not have sex, but have fooled around with him fingering me and me giving him head, etc. we have never had vaginal intercouse.

so last month, my period comes 2 or 3 days late, which it usually fluctautes a day or so either early or late, so i didn't freak out too much. we had fooled around like 1 or 2 weeks prior, only once the whole month, and it was straight up 69, virtually no way for semen to get down there.

my period was normal one day, and then barely at all the next, and then light, and then barely at all the fourth day. i am usually fairly heavy for the first 2 or 3, then it tapers off. this freaked me out a bit. i have been under some stress with a new job, my mom and her dad have been fighting a bit, plus summer just hit and we never turn on our air conditioner until absolutely necessaray, so it has been very hot.

could all of these things contribute to my late/light period?

i am such a worry wort, i have been worrying for 2 weeks straight, i make myself think that my boobs are sore, but they really aren't unless i think about it, kinda like a headache that isnt there until you think about it, and i haven't felt sick or hungry or anything. i also have tricked myself into thinking my boobs are bigger, the nipples aren't bigger or darker, i know it has to just be me completely freaking out.

my period should be here in a week or a week and a half, but i think that if i keep worrying, it will come late or not at all...

i just don't know what to do, is there any chance i could be pregnant? it seems virtually impossible, but i can't keep myself from worrying... i have told everything to him, we are very close, have been dating for 2.5 years and want to wait til marriage to have sex, he supports me in everything, but i am still worried...


absolutely any advice would be more than welcome. thanks so much for listening to me and helping.

-lilfle