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Maybe I'm still too young not to see the complications in living together but as soon as I knew it was time I asked my now fiancee because I wanted to see her when I woke up in the morning and I want to be able to say good night without her jumping from the car. We got a small sublet appartment in my town and we are right downtown. It's perfect.
i think "preasuring" is certainly wrong but I don't see anything wrong with sharing your living place. But thats me.
By the sound of it the two problems are that you like having the freedom to do as you please, and that she has a problem with this lack of commitment. That is what this is, a lack of commitment. She may be going about this the wrong way, I believe she is, but she is right, you arn't able to commit to that lifestyle yet. Tell her you are commited to take it farther and commited to keep seeing her but you arn't comfortable with that yet. If she loves you she will stick around.
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EX: Whats new?
ME: I officially love coffee more then you now.
EX: uh...
ME: So, not much.
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