Sage

Yeah, I'm echoing the "go talk to a professional" thing. Just because it sounds like you have YOUR life, your wife has HER life, and the only reason you two are sharing your lives at all is because you're married and you live together. If she's not into what you do, you're not into what she does, and "(you) don't find her interesting anymore" then there's a SERIOUS gulf between you two.

Now, knowing that there's a divide in your marriage, there's two things you can do about it- either BOTH of you make the committment to bridge the gap, or realize that you really don't care about the gap and would be happier not being married. This isn't a snap decision- it might take counseling, it might take a seperation, it might take actually being divorced for a few years and then coming back together, but it's something you need to acknowledge NOW and deal with NOW.

And you are definitely not being selfish- it just sounds like there's a whole lot of things that you want to do that you feel you can't because you're married. That's normal, and that's something that you need to deal with because it can cause a lot of issues in a marriage if it's not addressed.

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