it would probably be the toughest decision one would ever have to make if thrown into a situation like that. (and i say thrown because people are never prepared for a situation like that)
as i'm sitting here, i'm trying to fathom what i would do if that were me...or if i were in that situation and i've come to the conclusion that there is no right or wrong way, because it is a lose lose situation. you either lose a SO or you lose a child...who will ever be up to making a decision like that?
also, in a situation like that, more children will not be on your mind at that time...all that you will be thinking boaut is the child that you are losing at that point in time. who knows what guilt you'll carry around with you for the rest of you life with either decision.
all you can do is hope and pray that you will never be faced with it and if you are, hope you have the strength and wisdom to lead you on the correct path, to make the proper choice and to make sure that you can live with whatever choice you make.
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