Shallow? Not at all. Only you know what you want out of life, how you feel about your wife, and her personality. It's easy for others to say 'don't leave', do leave', etc.
As someone who knows all too well the mentality behind your post, I would tell you to ponder all aspects of you desires for your life, see where a wife, white picket fence fit in and then ask yourself this: can I live without her? Or is she holding me back?
Good luck, wherever your decision takes you
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