Hi! I am new here. I wanted to ask a question about this topic.
I sometimes feel like I am having a spontaneous orgasm when I am under a lot of stress. This feeling is different than when I am orgasming from sexual arousal or stimualtion. When I have an orgasm from sexual arousal and stimulation, it comes after a build up of arousal, where I feel sexual desire and a nice warm, swollen pressure feeling downstairs--then I have an orgasm. Plus, I feel really wet afterwards.
With these spontaneous ones in stressful situations, there is no build up of arousal--it is just BAM! I feel the nice contractions feeling. But there is no wetness. It feels nice, maybe it is my body releasing tension from stress, rather than tension from sexual desire.
Has anyone else experienced these "sudden dry orgasms" while under a lot of stress?
I will add, that when I get these sudden, dry orgasms there isn't any real thoughts of sex to bring it on. Confusing...