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Sounds to me like you're jumping to conclusions when you say she's offended or upset. From what you said, it didn't sound that clear-cut.
Sounds just as likely that she actually LIKED it, but thinks it's weird or something. Feels weird for liking it, maybe. Or has no particular opinion about it, but is weirded out that YOU like it.
All you should do is talk about it, especially if it's still weird now. Don't let a non-answer slide. Make sure she doesn't think this is some kink of yours that she HAS to like or something--that would get real weird, real fast.
I've said it before and I'll say it again: it's ALL about communication.
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