Susan Strasberg, an actress and daughter of Lee Strasberg, a famous acting coach, related a story about walking with her friend, Marilyn Monroe.
They were walking in Manhattan and doing so quite incognito, a fact which Strasberg pointed out. No one was hounding them. Marilyn remarked it was because 'she' wasn't on. When Susan asked her what she meant, Marilyn said, "watch this". WIthin seconds of her walking down the street, they were surrounded.
The point is, women can and do 'project'. We jiggle on cue, wiggle on cue and can change our look with a properly timed tilt of the head. Do you really think I look like that av?