Confidence is one of those things that builds on itself. Meaning, having confidence in your actions and seeing a positive return results in more confidence.
If you can't seem to get the mental game working right, just fake it. Some success might help where following others who have social skills or resolving self-esteem issues didn't. Also, people become what they pretend to be.
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"The question isn't who is going to let me, it's who is going to stop me." (Ayn Rand)
"The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers." (M. Scott Peck)
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