Sounds like you would be financially secure enough in Texas to visit your family often.
With this in mind, I recommend trying Texas.
Can you get a couple of weeks off from work?
Make sure the boyfriend doesn't plan financially around your additional income, but help him with the move out there. Stick around for a week, try to get comfortable in the city. Feel it out. Then go back home. Purchase that plane ticket home before you even leave for Texas. When you're home, see if you're dying to be back in Texas. If you are, consider moving for real.
You can ease yourself into it, or you can jump right in. Personally, I'm a fan of slower transitions. Look into your heart. Which direction will take you to where you want to be in life? You are 25. Not a bad age to be in transition.
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