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How about moving for a set period of time (like 2 years or so), and the living situation to be re-evaluated when that time is up?
I understand it's hard to be away from family, but really, are you going to plan to scrape by in NY forever? Is that the kind of life you want?
What if you got married, and then this opportunity comes up? It's better to try it out now, when you're not legally bound.
I seriously would go for it for a couple years, long enough to give you a real understanding of what it's going to be like, but with a real re-eval date on the calendar, which can provide the emotional relief you may need to make this a success.
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At night, the ice weasels come." -
Matt Groening
My goal? To fulfill my potential.
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