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Confidence is the ultimate turn-on. Doesn't sound like you have a lot of it. If you make yourself fun to be around you will find that people want to be around you.
Think of sex and relationships as part of the scenery rather than the goal. As in, your goal is to go out and have fun, better yourself, whatever. If you go towards that, the girl stuff will take care of itself.
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"The question isn't who is going to let me, it's who is going to stop me." (Ayn Rand)
"The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers." (M. Scott Peck)
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