How should i say this.... Alright i got all these chicks numbers maybe 5 to 8. I met them at clubs,stores,work etc etc. Mostly at clubs though. But they keep saying the same damn thing, and it's starting to bug me. They say " Let's be friends". Ugh Because i'm so nice they don't want to hurt me. But i'm all for hitting it and leaving it if that's what they want. I guess their scared i might fall in love with them , but damn i won't i just respect people. Reason i ask this because of something that happen like 3 weeks ago, I was talking to this girl, she like let's be friends. I really don't say anything, but thinking this chick ain't ready for me.
But the funny part is she called me a week ago and i told my buddy to talk to her because i had to do other things , anyways they talk for like a hour. This dude is really trying to get me in with her, But she's like " He's so nice and i can only consider him a friend" . Anyways so i told him to do his thing. Now take this their just talking on the phone, no idea what he looks like. However he some how get her to sleep with him a week later or something. But he was being truthful about telling her just hitting it with no-strings attach , unless she wanted more or something. And she really went for that.
So maybe i'm a dick for respecting women and i should just be what they want guys to be. Tell them i want to hit it and if she wants more it's up to her. Of course in girl terms though
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I just don't know, Maybe you can advise me on something better. I'm 22y/o and i'm not going get married this young. I just want to hit up every chick i can and not really have anything serious.
But i do pick up chicks with the nice attitude,but it always seems they want to find a husband or something. DAmn this shit is bugging me..