Cynthetiq

I would stay where put.

Are you married? engaged? planning on having a family together? do you have long term plans more than talking about a future?

If he´s making all this extra $$$ then great, stay put, he can fly you or himself back and forth for a month or three until you feel a bit more comfortable.

Now, myself, I couldn´t wait until I moved out of the house, like Mal, I moved at 17. I am not family oriented at all. That does not mean I am not close to them I speak with them all the time, I just don´t like the obligations of having to have Sunday dinner or holidays with them.

But that doesn´t mean I´d pick up and move from NYC. I couldn´t wait to move from my home town in Los Angeles. Now that I live in NYC, I can´t imagine living anywhere else, especially Texas.

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