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Old 06-29-2006, 03:25 PM   #1 (permalink)
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What would you do?

My boyfriend was offered a job in Texas back in April and this past week he accepted the offer (we are both from NY). We spent this last weekend in Texas looking at places to live and actually checking out his job...which he loved. I was very please with the area and the people there, however...how do you move across the country and leave your family behind. Now i understand we must all grow up at some point and make a life for ourselves (i'm 25) but I am soooo attached to my family!!! We all know living in NY is very expensive and finances is a cause of a fight or two once in a while. In Texas money will not be an issue TRUST ME he is making good money and i've looked into what my careers pays and I am very happy with what i saw...so what would you do??
1) leave your family and live a very nice comfortable life with your So
or
2) stay in NY because of your family and let go of the one you love??
seems like an easy decision but it is driving me crazy....

give me some advise
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