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Originally Posted by lurkette
My therapist says I should indulge myself in the fantasy of having a kid for a while, and see if it's just a passing biological urge, or if it's really something I want. So I'm indulging....and I find myself slipping into the "let's do it!" mindset.
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*gets ready to get yelled at for insensitivity*
May I ask what you are in therapy for? I mean, if it for something serious, and you need time to get your head right, then making a decision about having kids should probably be delayed, regardless of any tic-toc sounds or whatever anyone here thinks.
Also, I agree with ustwo - if you don't have kids, you can't know what it is like. Neither a pet, nor a baby brother, nor working in childcare, nothing compares.