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I didn't want to have a kid at the time, wasn't planning on having a kid at the time, was not set up financially to support a kid in the long run. I have a kid. I love the shit out of her and i love the shit out of having a kid. If all goes according to plan i will be set up financially in the near future. Being a parent isn't the easiest thing in the world and certainly requires a complete overhaul of the way one lives one's life, but i do believe that it's a worthwhile thing to do. There are many things that are intangibly great about having a kid that can't be described, only experienced. There are many things that can really suck about having a kid. As far as i'm concerned the positives far outweigh the negatives. For me.
I don't know you guys well enough to tell you whether you should have a kid or not. I just know that it can be pretty fucking amazing.
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