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Originally Posted by Cynthetiq
Then what's my reason?
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Perhaps that you and your spouse did make the conscious decision together(and not as 20 year-olds still making their way early on) , for whatever reason instead of simply dismissing any who decide otherwise as merely being emotional? Just a guess....
Which brings me to this pondering: Why is the decision to not have kids logical but the decision TO have them called emotional? I could take a few guesses, but I think it all boils down to where our own selfishnesses(new word) lie.