I need to add to my earlier points that you should think about not only where you are now but where you want to be 10 and 20 and 30 years from now. Do you see yourselves being in the twilight of life and being unhappy with no children? Do you see yourselves being happy that you are free to travel? It's a tough exercise but a necessary one. When I tried looking in my own crystal ball, I found it hard to imagine myself NOT being a little league or soccer coach or teaching someone to shave. But that's me and should in no way reflect on anyone else.
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