It all depends on your relationship with your guy friend, are you ready to lose him as a friend, if so, then go for it.
If you really wanted to do the right thing, talk to HIM, not her first, there is a right way and a wrong way about doing things like this, and taking a friends girlfriend is (for me) out of the question.
Worse case, you lose him as a friend, and keep her as only a distant friend, because if she does not like you romanticaly and she will become very distant and begin to move herself from your sphear of infulance, can you deal with that?
Best case, you keep your buddy, because you told him first, and you did the right thing, and you get a awesome relationship started with a girl you know you like from the start.
The only real advice I can give you is be a man, talk to your friend, and don't ruin any relationship, reguardless of if it's gonna end on it's own or not.
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Crack, you and I are long overdue for a vicious bout of mansex.
~Halx
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