My wife and I havent got kids, but she feels the 'tugging' every now and then. The reason she doesnt listen to it is that it goes away after a while and only happens when she sees the brighter side of having kids..the content new mum, the son hugging the dad, the kids being quiet while out,she doesnt feel it when she sees other women frazzled and at the end of their rope because the children are being naughty. As she says you have to take the good with the bad, and she couldnt see herself taking the bad so well. So think about the good and the bad and communicate with your partner. Hope it works out.
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