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Originally Posted by amonkie
A couple questions for you ...
- WHAT exactly was the sense of tugging? Was it to the birth experience - the carrying/nurturing someone for 9 months, having a bond with someone, etc? Was it the chance of ownership and pride "That's MY kid", ... what?
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The tugging started as the biological "my body wants to be pregnant" thing, and evolved into a "wanting to nurture and share a new life" thing. Just to be damn sure it's not solely biological, we're not making any decisions about this for at least several months. Meantime, the IUD stays firmly in place and does its job.
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- How long has the urge lasted? You've spent the better part of a decade from what I can see affirming your choice to NOT procreate ... and it is changed on a whim? While I'm not saying that it isn't possible... just be sure that it's not hormone or emotional related .. if the urge lasts 3-4 months, then in my opinion it would be one to pay serious attention to.
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See above - it hasn't been long, and I'm interested to see if it lasts. If not...problem solved, I guess!