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Originally Posted by Charlatan
First off, while Liv's desire to get the opinion of a "homophobe" is a tad spurious it *does not* suggest that all who are against same sex marriage are homophobes. It *does* suggest that all who are homophobic would be against same sex marriage.
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"A tad?" If this were a discussion on receipt of government assistance, I wouldn't ask for "losers" to chime in. I don't know whether 'chick meant it to be insulting, because it's pervasive throughout the media (and this forum) to label as a "homophobe" anyone who doesn't support whatever gay agenda is making the news. Had there been reason to suspect that she knew better, I would have used a stronger word than "bias."
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As to your suggestion that all who are in favour are "heterophobes"... Why escalate it?
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To illustrate the obvious point that not all who disagree with gay marriage are homophobes. That fact does not appear to be known widely in some circles.
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As for "calling an apple an orange"... What are you talking about? Two people , in a loving, committed relationship are no different from any other couple... regardless of their genders.
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Marriage has been historically been defined as the union of a man and a woman, both from a religious and a legal standpoint. However, gays that garner the most press are unwilling to accept any legal arrangement, even one equivalent to marriage, that is not
called marriage. To me, that indicates a lack of tolerance for others, and beyond that, a desire to rub the entire situation in the faces of those who don't agree with them. A compromise that gives the gay faction every legal right it wants, without calling it marriage, is acceptable to me, and every gay or straight I know, but not to the gays who make the most noise.
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Same-sex couples are not looking for "preferential treatment". They are looking for equal treatment in the eyes of the law. Big difference.
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The gays I was referring to are seeking preferential treatment in a variety of arenas. I didn't want to range too far off-topic, so I didn't go into detail, but I was not referring to gay marriage.