If it were my child, I think I'd want to know what was on the pictures, but of course there isn't really any way to put myself in his shoes so it's entirely speculation on my part, and I certainly can't judge him for wanting to preserve his memories of his daughters as a sweet, innocent girl.
I think the fact that this was a father and daughter had a lot to do with the attitude. Again, I'm not judging him, he has every right to try to memorialize his daughter as best he can.
It was a difficult situation and you handled it with grace and tact.
Gilda
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