I'm not qualified in any way but reading the posts I thought of his other daughter - the 21 year old. I would suggest a talk with her about what went on - really, in hindsight, with an adult - when she was younger. It may be information that is good to know about your daughter now. The older daughter - depending on her personality and maturity - may be able to be a friend/ an ear to the 10 year old. You know - same shit different pile - sort of philosophy.
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