asaris

Yes, Christians say love each other, and don't judge. But many Christians also think that God doesn't like it when we do bad things, and some of those believe that homosexual activity is one of those bad things. We would want a thief, a liar, or a hypocrite to repent of their sins; if we believe that homosexual activity is also a sin, shouldn't we want them to repent of that?

And, just as Gilda points out (correctly) that reasonable Christians can disagree on the appropriateness of homosexual activity, it's probably worth pointing out that not all of those who believe that homosexual activity is sinful fall into the "God hates fags" camp.

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"Die Deutschen meinen, daß die Kraft sich in Härte und Grausamkeit offenbaren müsse, sie unterwerfen sich dann gerne und mit Bewunderung:[...]. Daß es Kraft giebt in der Milde und Stille, das glauben sie nicht leicht."

"The Germans believe that power must reveal itself in hardness and cruelty and then submit themselves gladly and with admiration[...]. They do not believe readily that there is power in meekness and calm."

-- Friedrich Nietzsche