Why are you checking HIS text messages? I know they don't just pop up-you have to retrieve them. Why are you up at 4am telling a friend he hasn't come home yet and having HER check things out?
You're working very hard at sabotaging and finding any excuse to say you've been a victim of something, it seems. Like it's been said, talk to the guy, without accusing, without snooping and without playing victim. Be honest that you're 'maybe overreacting, but...'
Funny how we can work so hard to drive people away, then lament that everyone leaves us. Rein in the paranoia before that happens.
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Don't blame me. I didn't vote for either of'em.
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